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Within the past few days I have had a lot of time to think. And within the past forty-eight hours I've had a lot of time to speak. Before my time runs out of this forty-eight hours I want to speak to my readers. I may not have a lot of you, but I know there are some. First, I am eternally grateful for the life I have and live. I have incredible people in my life and they make my days wonderful. And you should fill the same about your lives. But that isn't really what I had in mind to say to you.

People come and go. People love and hate. People are happy some days and sad others. BUT... that is all normal. I know I am twenty and have a lot of learning to do and a life to live. Yet, I believe I've been threw sometimes in my life that have bumped my awareness up more than my age would noramly know/have. I have a lot of opinions as does everyone else. And one thing you should know about me is that I'll voice those opinion when I feel the need to do so.

Love. Love is the end all be all in my mind. I believe it's a top contender as to why I'm here on this earth. Love is something you should do everything you possibly can to have and make work. If you are going to love someone, love them fully. Love everything about them. Love their flaws, love their beauties, love what you hate about them, and love what you love about them. Love should be never ending. It should be ever growing. You should want to tell that person every second, of every day you love them. To the guys: she should never stop being the most beautiful person in the world. She should match up to your sister or mom or both. And you should treat her as you do them. She could be the mother to your children or the sister-in-law to your siblings. To the girls: he should be your rock. We all know we have so many messed up emotions that we need our man to calm us down. You should let him be the man and you should love it. Love should be something you break promises for. IT'S OKAY. That person you love should be worth it. Love when you are ready, not when you are lonely. That isn't real love. Love is amazing, but love is hard. It will take some time to find that "someone", but when you do it will all be worth it.

Heart break. It's okay to be "broken" you learn from it. But with that being said, don't let someone fill your head with words that aren't true. Don't you dare start to believe that you aren't worth a relationship. Don't you dare start to believe the hurtful things they say to you. Stand up for yourself. Just because you didn't work out with that person doesn't mean you won't with some else. If they don't want you, they don't get you. AND. DO NOT go back to someone who A: treated you with such disrespect, and B: when you are lonely. IT'S NOT WORTH IT. You are strong, and deserve to love and be loved by the most amazing person FOR YOU. Simple as that.

Believe and Trust. Believe in what you stand for and what you have set your life to be. Believe in the things you choose or have chosen to do because they were/are the right thing at the time. I, coming from the LDS faith, believe that my Heavenly Father helped me and guided me at those time to do such thing(s), and He will continue to do so. When I give advice to someone I tell them the things I do because I believe what I'm saying. Who are you to fill their head with something(s) you don't believe in yourself. Once you have made the choice or decision trust in yourself that you did the right thing and move on. Try it out. If it doesn't work in the end you have many more choices to make.

"What lies behind us, and what lies before us, are tiny matters compared to what lies within us" 

- Henry Haskins

Here's my thoughts babes. Take em or leave em! Have a fabulous weekend!

xoxo, miss