amen

i recently read this, and i found it more than perfect.

"When I say, "I love you," it's not because I want you or because I can't have you." "It has nothing to do with me. I love what you are, what you do, how you try, I've seen your kindness and your strength. I've seen the best and the worst of you. And I understand with perfect clarity exactly what you are." 

- Josh Whedon

Nothing will be quite as perfect as realizing this in someone some day. 

and i think maybe i have..

XOXO. miss